We told my parents and one or two friends who don't live in the same city as us. I'm waiting for my 22 week scan and report before I tell my best friend. She's also trying for children at the moment, and I have a feeling her initial reaction will be shock and maybe some feelings of me abandoning her in the "journey" to have children. If I tell her the news any later than that, I'm afraid she may have some sort of resentment for surprising her with the news so late. I had a miscarriage once and made the mistake of telling some people.. So I definitely don't wanna have to back track and tell people it's not happening, etc. Of course, I pray every day that things will go smoothly!
Additionally, there are a lot of ignorant people who don't understand what surrogacy is, and I'm not sure what their reactions will be.. Did u get a lot of weird responses?